What should men pay attention to when dating?

　　While dining, you can have an intuitive understanding of the other person's personal accomplishment, education, conversation skills, etc. Of course, you will inevitably become the object of secret judgment in the other person's heart.

　　Men: Be a gentleman at all times. Men should take the initiative to choose a restaurant. Whether high-end, mid-range or mass-market depends on their budget. However, regardless of the level, it is recommended to choose a restaurant that is quieter rather than bustling with people and having slow service. The purpose of a blind date is to get to know each other better, so talking is the focus, and eating is secondary. Men must reserve a table in advance and then inform women of the specific address. Be sure to arrive early and never be late!

　　If you are making an appointment at a Chinese restaurant, remember to specify that you want a small table for two when making the reservation. Never find a large table in a private room just to show off your grandeur. A large table will add a lot of strangeness between two people. Sitting close to each other will make the two of you unnatural, and a large table will seem cumbersome. If you sit apart, the distance will be far away, making it difficult to talk and eat food. If you make an appointment at a Western restaurant, it is best to choose a Western restaurant that you have been to or frequent. Firstly, you will be more comfortable in a familiar environment and you will be able to talk much more freely. Secondly, because you are familiar with the dishes and waiters, you will invisibly increase your confidence in ordering, further leaving a good impression of your ability on the other party.

　　The overall style should be elegant and concise. It doesn’t have to be a full suit and tie as professional and formal as at work, but it also shouldn’t be as casual and sloppy as slippers, shorts, and a T-shirt.

　　After both parties sat down, the man asked the woman to read the menu first to see what she liked. Knowing how to order is also a manifestation of personal accomplishment, but don't point fingers or be eager to show off just because you understand. You can make appropriate suggestions when the lady doesn't know what to choose, and speak in a humble and unassuming tone.