Ten golden standards for men to choose a mate

　　1. Virtue, this is eternal female virtue.

　　2. The most important quality of a woman should be kindness, and filial piety comes first. I don’t know how many miserable men in the world are suffering from the hostility between their wives and their own mothers?

　　3. Be knowledgeable and courteous. This is a requirement of the new era for women to keep pace with the times. A woman's temperament and upbringing are the expression of her inner richness, and are also where she truly distances herself from others.

　　4. Have a stable income. Women can achieve independence and self-respect if they do not depend on men to survive.

　　5. Innocence is a bit childlike. If a man really likes a woman, he should protect her innocence to the greatest extent. A woman who has not lost her childishness can make long and boring eye contact endlessly enjoyable.

　　6. Sensible. The most important thing for a man is dignity. She can criticize me at home, but she cannot ridicule or ridicule me in public. A woman who doesn't know how to maintain her husband's dignity should not be ignored.

　　7. Refuse to indulge in feasting and entertainment, and do not be overly enthusiastic about the opposite sex. She has good living habits. Smoking, drinking, and all-night parties will not happen to her. She will not spend time in bars or nightclubs. She knows that her value is not to please the opposite sex, so she will not take the initiative to strike up a conversation with other men. Only those who are high-minded and unobtrusive are in high spirits.

　　8. Full trust and relative freedom. It is actually human nature to like the new and dislike the old. No one can guarantee that he will only have a good impression of one person in his life. I advise all women in the world who are about to get married to study hard healthy Psychological knowledge, fully understand your husband's hobby of gazing at beautiful women in pictures and websites, and don't be picky about these subconscious behaviors. Otherwise it will push the marriage to death. He wanted to stay alone for a while, without asking nonsense questions, just bring him a cup of tea and close the door gently.

　　9. No excessive material desires. This is very important! Since ancient times, success has come from frugality and failure has come from luxury. What's more, her complacency and optimistic nature enable her to continue her youth. Excessive vanity often makes men who are not "rich and wealthy" mentally nervous and even overwhelmed by it. My daughter-in-law should be able to sit in a BMW and ride a bicycle; she should be able to live in a five-star hotel, and she would not mind a camping tent;

　　10. Thoughtful and tasteful. Being thoughtful makes her disdainful of getting involved in other people's gossip. She has always been an "insulator". Having good taste allows her to express her style with originality. I can't tolerate my wife being unable to walk when she sees anything. It's not that I'm poor, so I can't tolerate this problem in her!