How to beat sexual fatigue as a couple

　　How to beat "sexual fatigue" between couples?

　　First, there must be changes in the sexual life of couples.

　　These changes include changes in time, location, posture, movement, etc., and sometimes can also artificially create some surprises for the other party. There is an interesting couple joke. A wife has to change into a new pair of pajamas every night before going to bed. When her husband sees her, she begs her, "Wife, why don't you do this? I can't control myself as soon as I see you put on your new pajamas." ”My wife smiled and nodded in agreement. However, after a while, the husband said again: "Wife, please do as before, otherwise, I will lose interest. ”Although this is a joke, it illustrates a truth: Husband and wife should deliberately create some romance and "seedlings" to attract each other to increase the mutual attraction between husband and wife. The sexual life between husband and wife should not be too rigid or stable, but should be innovative and pioneering. If one party in the couple occasionally gets a new hairstyle, wears a well-fitting fashion, or undergoes a beauty treatment, it will make the other party's eyes brighten and increase their sexual charm.

　　Second, couples should pay attention to the quality of each sexual life.

　　Looking at those middle-aged and elderly couples who have maintained a passionate sexual life for a long time, they are always good at obtaining happiness during the entire sexual process, not just the small part of the time when they pursue sexual intercourse. They often spend a lot of time on "sexual foreplay" and "sexual cleanup", and they are devoted from the beginning to the end. Each of them allows the other to enjoy sex and love during sexual intercourse. They are both givers and gainers. They can get great sexual happiness in every sexual life, and they always have more to say. This sex has just ended, and I am full of longing and expectation for the next round of sex. They will also have times when their sexual desire is low, but they are not in a hurry, but patiently wait for the gradual accumulation of sexual desire. During the waiting days: they adjust the mentality of both parties, for example: traveling together, attending class reunions together, watching a movie together, reading a poem together, or intentionally separating for ten and a half months to make the distance produce longing, in order to achieve the unique effect of "a small separation is better than a newlywed".

　　Third, we must handle the interval between sexual intercourse between husband and wife.

　　Although the sexual "vitality" of husbands at this time is not as strong as that of their wives, they also have another advantage, that is, they can last longer during sexual intercourse and can better control their "desire for excretion" (that is, prolonging sexual intercourse) ejaculation time). Therefore, as long as you make full use of this advantage, you can handle your wife's strong sexual offensive with ease. However, at this time, couples should grasp the intensity of their sexual life. They should extend the "practice once every one or two nights" during the newlywed period to "once every three or four days." If the man's energy is still lacking, it can be "once every five or six days." As long as the husband makes the truth clear to his wife, the wife will probably not embarrass her husband, because compared with quantity and quality, quality is more important. Moreover, a high-quality sex life can make both husband and wife fully satisfied and have high hopes for the next round of sex. This is hundreds of times better than the "fast food sex life" that is done in a hurry.