What should a man do if he is addicted to sex?

　　Men crave sex more than we think

　　On average, they have a sexual thought in their mind every six minutes. Keeping them satisfied may seem difficult, but in fact, you can do it. Because men who are sexually satisfied and men who are sexually repressed are different in their lives. Sexual satisfaction is his enjoyment, and at the same time, it is your enjoyment. Let a man be a man. The so-called perfect sex means that the man not only satisfies himself, but also achieves the purpose of pleasing his wife. This is the most unforgivable "selfish man" laziness of many women when men fall asleep after having sex. Actually, men Dream What he longs for is a woman who can satisfy him every time. Because only at this time can he show that he is a 100% real man.

　　Why is sex addictive?

　　The dangers of sex addiction cannot be underestimated, as it harms both ourselves and others. Even the mildest level of sexual addiction can affect one's normal life, such as masturbation leading to nocturnal emissions; cybersex reducing the number of sexual encounters with real partners, interfering with the relationship between husband and wife; or losing a lot of time and losing one's job and financial resources. A middle-aged man in Germany, who hated sex addiction and was unable to extricate himself, actually became a doctor himself and cut off his "lifeblood" with a kitchen knife. The lesson he learned was a painful one.

　　Psychologists divide people into three levels based on their acceptance of sex addiction:

　　Level 1: refers to behaviors that can be tolerated by society, such as masturbation, etc., and do not harm others;

　　Level 2: Involves some sexual activities that violate others, such as exposing genitals in front of the opposite sex, or peeking at the private parts of the opposite sex;

　　Level 3: Refers to rape, incest and sexual assault of children, which are crimes.

　　Psychologists advise you to do this

　　First look for the cause of sex addiction. If it is endocrine disease If you are suffering from it, you should seek medical treatment in time. Once the root cause of the disease is eliminated, the sexual addiction will be diluted and gradually disappear. If it is caused by a psychological disorder, you should seek help from a psychiatrist. Many patients with sex addiction suffer from anxiety disorder or obsessive-compulsive disorder. Therefore, active treatment of these psychological diseases can often have the effect of removing the firepower from the cauldron, thereby reducing the degree of sex addiction.

　　For the increasing mental pressure brought by modern society, it is appropriate to use other healthy Ways to reduce stress, such as running, gymnastics, ball games and other sports, singing, dancing and other entertainment activities, do not be obsessed with sexual activities, especially to prevent dependence. You can also develop a specific treatment schedule to gradually reduce the number of sexual partners and extend the interval until the sexual addiction is eliminated. As for those who suffer from cybersex obsession, they must also quit Internet addiction at the same time, otherwise the effects will be difficult to consolidate. Mr. Ouyang also needs to know this.