What is considered excessive masturbation?

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　　First, the psychological condition: If you often want to masturbate, or you must masturbate every time pornographic novels or movies arouse sexual impulses, or you often think about sexual issues in your mind, and you still have the desire to masturbate even if you don’t masturbate every time, this indicates the phenomenon of excessive masturbation. Modern medicine believes that men’s spermatorrhea cycle occurs approximately twice a month. About every two weeks or so, due to the accumulation of semen in the sexual organs, this fullness and stimulation will produce a desire for excretion, which can easily induce a nocturnal emission or masturbation. If the frequency of masturbation far exceeds this range, you will have no control at all and will lose your psychological defense line of self-control, which will inevitably lead to excessive masturbation.

　　Second, physical condition: Any physical weakness caused by masturbation, such as weight loss, weakness, fatigue, listlessness, insomnia, memory loss, lack of concentration, or even vulnerability to illness, should be regarded as a sign of excessive masturbation. Even if you don't masturbate much, your mental state is unstable. You always think that masturbation is harmful, and you are afraid, ashamed, regretful, have a sense of guilt and worry, and are even worried about your future sexual function and fertility. However, you can't get rid of the temptation of masturbation, and you have a strong psychological conflict and have a certain mental impact. It should also be regarded as a manifestation of excessive masturbation. Because if you continue to masturbate, your psychological conflicts will intensify, and you may even suffer a mental "breakdown" and commit suicide or remove your sexual organs, which are both considered psychological disorders.

　　Third, local condition: This refers to local or partial condition of the penis female How the clitoris responds to sexual stimulation of a masturbatory nature. There are two situations: one is masturbation to ejaculation Or the time limit for orgasm, that is, how long it takes for masturbation to ejaculate or have orgasm. If the time is getting longer and longer, it means masturbation is excessive. The other is the intensity of masturbation stimulation. The intensity required increases every time, which also means excessive masturbation. In addition, you may experience local discomfort such as dull pain or numbness during or after masturbation, or frequent urination discomfort and burning discomfort in the urethra after masturbation. ； Or increased vaginal discharge and dull pain and discomfort in the lower abdomen of women should be considered as signs of excessive masturbation.

　　Due to excessive masturbation and long-term congestion of sexual organs, many masturbation addicts may have some physical symptoms, such as back pain, unclear urination, burning of the urethra, perineal discomfort, swelling of the lower abdomen, etc. Long-term friction may also cause symptoms in the perineal area and external genitalia. skin Pigmentation deepens, pubic hair grows abnormally, and symptoms such as drowsiness and fatigue may occur throughout the body. Sexual function decline may occur in individual cases.

　　In fact, the fact that most young people masturbate occasionally does not constitute excessive masturbation, and there is no need to carry any ideological baggage about it. The key to masturbation is to have self-control. Have correct sexual concepts and maintain good psychological quality.

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