What are men’s sexual fantasies about?
Asked by:Ellen
Asked on:Mar 24, 2026 12:02 AM
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Katie
Mar 24, 2026
I invited six high school students and two junior high school students to have a discussion together. I thought that when men and women chat together, they can collide with each other on certain points of view, and because of the presence of the opposite sex, they may have more desire to express themselves. Unexpectedly, when making an appointment on the phone, the boy was willing to share secrets with the girl, and also wanted to know what girls fantasized about. The girls simply refused, saying that this kind of thing, especially if it involved some sexual issues, was a boudoir affair. How could we let boys break in without permission? So I had to divide them into two groups and chat separately.
To my surprise, in order to save the boys and girls' face and allow them to whisper some secrets, I set the chat location in a quiet western restaurant. However, when chatting, everyone became more and more open-minded, their voices gradually relaxed, and they rarely avoided the people around them; moreover, when they talked about some of the more bizarre and absurd sexual fantasies, they laughed like they were telling jokes. And they understand and master much more about sex than schools and parents expect.
Reporter: How do you know that the content of your fantasy is a sexual fantasy?
Wan'er: When I was a sophomore in high school, I saw an article in the newspaper about several celebrities discussing their sexual fantasies. It dawned on me after reading it, and I felt the same way. Because I started dating in my freshman year of high school. After we started dating, I would occasionally lose my mind. Sometimes at night sleep Sometimes, some scenes of me and him being together will appear in my mind unknowingly, and these scenes have never happened in our relationship.
For example, one time I actually imagined that he and I were holding hands and riding the waves on the empty and silent beach. When we were tired, we would just lie on the beach with our clothes on and let the waves invade our bodies one after another. Then at some point, he secretly climbed onto my body and gently took off my clothes. When the sunset and the sea water merged together, he and I also completed the union of spirit and body.
The picture is beautiful and so is the mood. But the next day when I thought about what happened last night, I felt a little uneasy. When we are in love, we just hold hands and kiss at most. Of course, privately I would also think about what it would be like to have sex with him, but I didn't dare to take it seriously. My parents objected, the school didn't allow it, and I wasn't mentally prepared. So, in those days, I thought I was very promiscuous, how could I come up with such a thing? It wasn’t until I saw that article that I realized that this was a very normal behavior. This may have happened because I secretly watched a Category III movie.
Mu Yi: I saw these three words from a magazine in Hong Kong when I was in the first grade of junior high school. It is a consulting column. A reader said that after reading a pornographic novel online, he kept thinking about the things in it. In the end, he even thought that he was the male protagonist in the novel and had a sadomasochistic relationship with an unknown sexy girl. It's over after I've finished reading it. I just think sexual fantasy is a rather special word.
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