The difference between male and female sex

　　Sex and sexual intercourse may seem to be the same thing, but they are actually two different things. What is the difference between them? Sexual intercourse comes from instinct, as long as there is sexual desire ； Sex is different. In addition to sexual desire, sex also involves love. The difference is: sexual intercourse is more animalistic, while sex is humane ； The meaning of sexual intercourse is to vent temporarily, and the meaning of sex is to obtain beautiful and long-lasting feelings. ； Sexual intercourse is animal instinct, sex is an adult game ； Intercourse is low level, sex is high level. Under normal circumstances, men only want to have sex but don’t want to have sex, but women are just the opposite!

　　Sex is the most wonderful act of enjoyment for human beings and the best gift given by God to mankind. I remember Hemingway said that if you lose the ability to have sex, you would be better off dead - to the general effect. This shows how important sex is to people.

　　Sex is actually a required course between husband and wife. After spending the honeymoon and eliminating the novelty and mystery, sex becomes a routine. If you are in a good mood, make love; if you are in a bad mood, have intercourse. After getting over the seven-year itch, we entered a more prosaic "stalemate" stage. A symphony of pots and pans replaced the beautiful symphony of fish and water. Looking at each other speechless, it is inevitable that there will be aesthetic fatigue and no passion. Sometimes even kissing may become a chore. At this time, lovemaking may be "downgraded" to sexual intercourse. If you meet a husband who is inconsiderate and selfish, sexual intercourse will simply become a man's outlet, no different from going to the toilet, and resentment will arise.

　　I often see some survey statistics saying that a certain percentage of women - quite high, and the proportion of Chinese women is even higher than that of foreign women, but I always can't remember - have never enjoyed an orgasm in their lives. Think about it, how sad and terrible this is for women!

　　Today's world is basically a male-dominated world. The vast majority of entertainment venues provide convenience for men who like the new but dislike the old and seek stimulation. Men can have fun in such places, roam among the flowers, and find many opportunities to have sex with women.

　　A once popular joke illustrates this problem vividly: it is about the president and his wife of the United States going to inspect a chicken farm. The chicken farmer boasted about his rooster and said: See that rooster? It can mate more than a dozen times a day. After hearing this, the lady said to the secretary: Tell this to the president. After hearing this, the president asked the boss: Is this rooster mating with only one hen, or with different hens? The boss said: Of course they mate with different hens. The president said to his secretary: Please tell Madam this... Doesn't this joke just mean: Men like to have sex and women like to have sex?

　　Men are in control of sex and intercourse. If a man learns to understand women and care for her, he will become a "human being"” ； If he doesn't understand women, doesn't care about women, and only cares about himself, then he is an "animal".

　　A woman is actually like a piano. Men must learn how to play in order to play harmonious and beautiful music.； A woman is more like a book. Men must understand and read this book thoroughly before they can reach the peak of beautiful sex together.

　　Lu Xun said: Love must be renewed from time to time. This is not to advocate updating your wife or husband, but to keep the freshness of love, you must always pay attention to filling in new content, always discover the advantages of both parties, always develop the potential of both parties, always increase the sexual interest in marriage - to avoid aesthetic fatigue and avoid downgrading "sex" to "sexual intercourse".